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When Your Mountain Won’t Move

When Your Mountain Won’t Move

If you have been struggling to hear God, to know where He wants to you go, what He wants you to do, and you have been praying, seeking, and patiently waiting, then maybe there is something wrong. If you are standing at the foot of […]

The Power of Forgiveness

The Power of Forgiveness

Both women had experienced inexplicable pain in life. Margaret was angry and bitter over yet another divorce and had accepted that her only recourse was to toughen up and protect herself. She became demanding, paranoid, and quite lonely, not to mention, an extraordinarily difficult co-worker. […]

Banishing Anxiety From Your Heart

Banishing Anxiety From Your Heart

You lay in bed, trying to sleep, but you can’t. The minutes fly by and soon the hours, but you can’t stop thinking– your brain is going a million miles a minute playing out scenarios, ideas, replaying past events, wondering where you went wrong. You […]

The Foundation For a Life of Wisdom

The Foundation For a Life of Wisdom

We all enjoy stories of hope, success, overcoming the odds, and victory over our struggles. Most of us do not see ourselves in those stories, however. They are usually other people’s stories- at least in our minds they are. We rarely see our own life […]

Taking Thoughts Captive

Taking Thoughts Captive

A dear friend of mine was expressing exasperation at her constant influx of defeating and destructive thoughts. In fact, as I speak with many women, it is shocking to hear the negative, accusatory, and hopeless thoughts that plague their minds. I must admit, I struggle with this […]


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Rage and Rioting; What is the Wise Response?

Rage and Rioting; What is the Wise Response?

Recent events have left many of us reeling. The onset of a global pandemic, a shutdown of multiple systems of life and society, halted worship services, and intense political tensions have our nation on the edge of economic and social collapse. Now, with the recent […]

Sex Scandals and the Importance of Healthy Church Leadership

Sex Scandals and the Importance of Healthy Church Leadership

In early December (2018), as churches prepared for Christmas celebrations, proclaiming the joy of Christ’s birth, an article in the Star-Telegram in Ft. Worth, TX exposed a dark, horrifying secret. The article revealed how hundreds of sex abuse allegations in fundamental Baptist churches have gone unreported […]

Why We Often Regret the Time We Spend Online…

Why We Often Regret the Time We Spend Online…

“Lazy hands make a man poor, but diligent hands bring wealth. He who gathers crops in summer is a wise son, but he who sleeps during harvest is a disgraceful son.” Prov 10:4-5

The lazy person is called a sloth or sluggard in Proverbs- someone who is habitually inactive or idle.

There, the sluggard would be laying around, sleeping instead of working- especially during the harvest, a time when it was “all hands on deck-“ when everyone else was pitching in. One who slept while others worked hard in the beating son was a disgrace, as everyone was expected to work and pull their weight.

This kind of example might be hard for us to relate to, in a culture that is more industrial and technological rather than agricultural. But I think many of us may exhibit tendencies of the habitually inactive or idle more than we might realize.

We spend countless hours each week (and sometimes in a day,) scrolling through various social media sites, binge-watching tv, or getting lost in video games.

This is habitual inactivity, idleness— as little to nothing is gained from this time other than brief enjoyment in living vicariously through other’s lives, real or imagined.

If you are like me, you quickly experience regret, the letdown after realizing that I just lost a huge chunk of time on any of these types of outlets- because we realize that valuable time was spent with no real benefit or profit from it. I know, we could all argue the merits of our online activity, and maybe your experiences are very enriching to you, but honestly, I struggle to feel truly connected or like I have contributed positively to others’ lives until I have an actual conversation or meet a tangible need.

But here is another passage that should encourage us:  “All hard work brings a profit, but mere talk only leads to poverty.” Prov 14:23

All hard work brings a profit. 

What is the profit, really? Is is merely staying afloat? Is it avoiding ruin by maintaining a balance between what flows in and what flows out? That’s how most of us live. But that is not profit. That is not thriving, it’s merely surviving.

Profit is gain. It is not a maintaining mode, it is a thriving, prospering, advantageous mode.

That is what most of us want. That is what most of us need, whether it is in finances, our emotional health, or relationships, but the path to that is pretty simple— hard work. I didn’t say easy, but I did say simple.

We can take heart in the timeless principles laid out for us over and over again— all hard work brings a profit— it benefits us and is advantageous in many ways.

But we must be honest about our activities— are we like the wise son who gathers crops in the harvest— or are we like the disgraceful son, wasting precious time and energy on things that do not bring us any advantage, gain, or profit?

I pray that YOU experience greater health and profit in the days to come as you work hard at your finances, relationships, and well-being!

Keeping Little Ones Busy This Summer….Give Them Purpose!

Keeping Little Ones Busy This Summer….Give Them Purpose!

I don’t know about you, but the Dawson family really only needs about 1 month in summer before we are ready to get back to “normal.” Sure, we love sleeping in, relaxing in the sun, catching a movie, walking to the ice cream shop after […]

Helping Others Without Handicapping Them

Helping Others Without Handicapping Them

I’ve recently been asked how one can determine when to help others, especially when it isn’t clear whether we should or not. It is a difficult question.    As Christians, we are often moved and indeed commanded to help others in need, but we must […]

How To NEVER FAIL Your Child…

How To NEVER FAIL Your Child…

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Mothers, co-laborers, baby poolers and carpoolers, those who work outside of the home and those who stay and work in the home, those nesting or sweeping clean an emptied nest…Happy Mother’s Day!

As I talk to countless mothers, one common fear among us surfaces quite often: failure.

Mothers today juggle so many things: work, health, family, finances, friendships, missions, charity, and the list could go on and on. It’s mind blowing what women today are attempting and accomplishing! We are a generation of the have it all / do it all mother.

And while we may feel successful in many areas, we struggle to feel truly successful as a mother.

When I asked friends on FB what makes them feel “successful” as a mom, I received a wide range of responses:

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10 EASY Phrases to Teach/ Empower Your Preschooler-2

10 EASY Phrases to Teach/ Empower Your Preschooler-2

In my last post, I described a situation familiar to most parents of young children: a seemingly ordinary drive when my two-year-old began to totally freak out. She seemed to go from 0 to 60 mph in about 5 seconds flat and none of us […]

10 Easy Phrases to Teach/ Empower Your Preschooler

10 Easy Phrases to Teach/ Empower Your Preschooler

One evening last fall, I was driving our 13, 11, and 2-year-old home from an activity and little one was cranky, tired, and in desperate need of who-knows-what…When that couldn’t be found she resorted to mumbling and sputtering every word she could think of—  crying […]

Paying the Price for the Breakdown of Wisdom

Paying the Price for the Breakdown of Wisdom

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Which values do you think make for a thriving and productive society?

Would you say it’s things like hard work, integrity, meaningful relationships, and compassion that create a healthy and prosperous society? Or do you believe that laziness, infidelity, disrespect, and substance abuse are the keys?

Which societal norms are most advantageous for a nation desiring to reclaim world leadership in technology, science, and industry?

These sound like ridiculous questions, right?

But when an article came out on August 9, 2017 in the Philadelphia Enquirer titled, “Paying the price for the breakdown of the country’s bourgeois culture” the public response could make you wonder.

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10 Things We Tell Our Children About Violence in the World -Part 3

10 Things We Tell Our Children About Violence in the World -Part 3

We have been talking about violence in the world today in my last 2 posts and I must admit, it can be very overwhelming and hard to remain positive or hopeful with new reports of violence daily. We know more about what is happening in our local […]


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The Foundation For a Life of Wisdom

The Foundation For a Life of Wisdom

We all enjoy stories of hope, success, overcoming the odds, and victory over our struggles. Most of us do not see ourselves in those stories, however. They are usually other people’s stories- at least in our minds they are. We rarely see our own life story as one of overarching hope, victory, and blessing.

But that doesn’t have to be the case- it mustn’t be the case– because God’s wisdom gives us everything WE need to accomplish those goals and experience transformation. Wisdom guides us in our relationships, in management of finances, our parenting, taking control of harmful habits and destructive thought patterns, and much much more!

But most of us don’t know where to begin. Most people do not know the foundational elements  to a life of wisdom and sadly, they miss the countless rewards that come from it!

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